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It's been a long and angsty road, but I've realized that bbwoof is not going to change his mind, is not going to explain to me what went wrong -- and even if he would do so, he has not ever made the sort of commitment to me that I expect and deserve.

One day last October I accepted this, and absolutely gave up on him.

That same evening an attractive man, someone I'd been lightly flirting with, suddenly started flirting back. A lot. And a week later, at a Halloween party, he and I started being "us".

The more I get to know Sveinn, the more I realize how remarkably suited we are for each other. I love getting to know him!

So it turns out that Halloween is still lucky for me, after all.

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dadi
Jan. 13th, 2015 04:54 am (UTC)
So happy to read this!
tzaddi_93
Jan. 13th, 2015 07:51 pm (UTC)
I am so happy for you!
azurelunatic
Jan. 14th, 2015 07:29 am (UTC)
This is a great place to come to on that road!
curiouswombat
Jan. 15th, 2015 08:27 am (UTC)
I am so pleased that you finally were able to come to term with the reality of the situation with bbwoof.

It was so sad to watch you tearing yourself painfully apart and know that we could do so little to help.

And hurrah for Sveinn!
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cakmpls
Jan. 15th, 2015 09:04 pm (UTC)
This is great to read! Best wishes always!
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